heres a few tips that have worked for me and the mrs get a chest freezer do 1 major shop when you first move in our 1st shop was arround £300 then the weekly shop is basicly just topping up the shelves, fridge, freezer our weekly shop is around £40. dont be to proud/vain to except 2nd hand goods from family and friends try not to get in debt doing the house up all in 1 go we have done a room at a time when it comes to bills if for e.g. your montly out goings are £1000 put £600 each in to a joint account the extra £200 a month adds up in to the holiday fund or new sofa fund ect ect or like us this week getting our boiler fixed without worrying about where the moneys coming from also stops arguments about money dont be scared to diy carpentry, plumbing, electrics, plastering,floor laying and painting are all easy with abit of knoledge and common sense