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Right, i know 99 if not 100% of you wont actualli care about this, but im pretty over the moon tbh lol.

right, after months of feeling sorry, an blaming all the relationship problems on myself, i finally got round to texting my ex and it would appear things are sorting themselves out :D

if any of you have been in this position you will know how i feel right now.

Woop :D.. now to get some decent progress done on the van incase things move a little too fast and i end up neglecting the poor thing like i did with my nova.

That is all.
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thats top news mate, well done. I do know exactly how you feel. How long were you together?

One piece of advice though, dont for get why you split, the real reason, and make sure it gets seen to asap
 

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all the best, now man up and get working ;)
 
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hope you sort it out mate been there and didnt bother to sort it and things got really bad and she wont let me see my kids now so i no wot its like but as the saying gose onwards and upwards ive moved on now just the legal battle 4 the kids left to go now but im hoping she comes to her senses and gives me time with them before it gose that far
 
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I know how you feel mate, me and my missus having problems atm, we have broken up 4 times in the 6 years we have been together, but keep trying to work it out. We have 2 kids so makes moving on very difficult.

As things are i cant see it lasting, and the kids make that very difficult to deal with. But everything happens for a reason :beer::hug:
 
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savage, excuse the pun but thats pretty savage. Its a similar thing with me and my mrs/ex always breaking up, never seem to be able to properly sort things out. Hope things work out for the best :beer:

Nova i love good news, as above i hope things work out for you too :beer:
 

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Bin there too - split for 6 months over somethin stupid, then hated her cos my so called best mate was telling me she was doin drugs and got pregnant etc - when she had been sexually assualted and was too scared to leave the house. The minute i found out i screeched up to her house and havent looked back. Moral - Dont listen to rumours. Good luck mate, good you are patching things up!!
 
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no longer a good result... in fact... the complete opposite tbh. the reason we broke up. f*cking about with my head.. AGAIN!.

tells me she wants us to spend more time together as we've not spoke much since we broke up,. went and saw her, holding hands and everything, gave her a hug before i come home, then i get a text whilst on the bus saying shes in a relationship and shes happy... wtf!?!

it wouldnt be quite so bad, but then she told me shes seeing someone who lives in scotland... completely the opposite end of the country, and shes never even met him!
 

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Damn, my last post was short lived then :(

Gutted mate.. but if she's going to continue to fxck you around then don't bother mate, not worth the hassle. In a 'relationship' with someone in scotland she's never met sounds like more of an excuse than anything else.
 
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tbh mate, i know im better off without her, just every time im just moving on, like seeing someone else, she'll just randomly text me, bringing back a flood of memories...

the van will be getting lots of love now. the vans the only thing in life that cant f*ck me over lol.

an, i dont know why, but she'd rather be in a fantasy relationship with someone shes never even met... i was her first REAL boyfriend. an we were together 7 months. i tried my best, but you know, maybe it wasnt enough.

on a good note... work is commencing on the van tomorrow. going to rub down the purple paint that some idiot has painted inside with, and give it a fresh coat of primer,. then should be getting plates welded under the holes where im assuming ariels have been previously. they have bungs in, but i want a more perminant fix,.
 

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women can **** with your head mate. me and my ex split up end of last year, decided it was best as we were both bored. (4 years together and engaged, no kids though) anyways she was crying saying she wanted it back and what not, i said no thinking "wahay im single again" anyways couple of months down the line im in bits since i've realised what i've just thrown away because i couldnt be arsed to make more of an effort and now shes not interested anymore :doh::doh:

If shes ****ing you around just move on mate, i know it can be hard but live for the future and stop trying to re-live the past (**** me that sounded cheesy :lol:)
 

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I dont blame myself for that, shes gotten used to single life i havnt. simple as. What i do blame myself for is not being arsed though, the last year was **** tbh didnt go out together, didnt go out much on our own tbh. both be in the house, one of us in the bedroom on the laptop other on the pc or watchin tv. I know for a fact if i had tried harder we would still be together but i didnt, thats my fault and i can deal with it.

I went from being engaged, living away from parents, decent car and full time managers job to being single, living at home, no car and part time key holder job in a matter of months. Felt like my life was really ****ed up, which in a way it was. Got myself a little run around now though, looks like im getting a full time managers job again too (better than the last one) so its coming together again. Just move on with everything :nod:
 

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