personally wouldn't call that a mate. I'd be telling him to jog onGetting married on Saturday, and I've got 2 best men, 2 best mates that helped through the **** so I couldn't pick between them, so 2 years ago I asked them both, and they were great. Friend 1 has helped organise stuff, just generally been really good. Friend 2 hasn't asked helped or done a single thing. Then tells me last Friday hes on holiday to America until late Friday evening, wont make the rehearsal, and touch and go with the wedding, as he will be jet lagged. And he cant see why I'm really cheesed off about it. Or am I just being a diva? 2 years hes had the date, and he picks then?